The conventional wisdom goes, going through hardship makes us good people. Philosopher Julian Baggini
doesn't seem to think so. So how did this nugget of wisdom become conventional? Baggini has a proposition:
Why then do so many persist with the idea that suffering is good for us? The religious need to, of course. If suffering is not, on balance, a good thing, then there can be no benevolent creator in charge of this show. But even without a theological motivation, the thought of so much suffering without redemption can be almost intolerable. Believing it has a point can be the only way to make life bearable.